萨提亚语录当我内心足够强大 喜欢的萨提亚诗《当我内心足够强大》,共勉
当我内心足够强大,
你指责我,我感受到你的受伤;
你讨好我,我看到你需要认可;
你超理智,我体会你的脆弱和害怕;
你打岔,我懂得你如此渴望被看到。
当我内心足够强大,
我不再防卫,
所有力量,在我们之间自由流动,
委屈,沮丧,内疚,悲伤,愤怒,痛苦,
当他们自由流淌,
我在悲伤里感到温暖,
在愤怒里发现力量,
在痛苦里看到希望。
当我内心足够强大,
我不再攻击,
我知道,当我不再伤害自己,便没有人可以伤害我,
我放下武器,敞开心,当我的心,柔软起来,
便在爱和慈悲里与你明亮而温暖地相遇。
原来,让内心强大,
我只需要,看到自己,
接纳我还不能做的,欣赏我已经做到的,
并且相信,走过这个历程,
终究可以活出自己,绽放自己。
When I’m strong enough inside,
You blame me,
I feel your pain;
You flatter me,
I see you need approval;
You’re crazy,
I understand your vulnerability and fear;
You interrupt.
I know how much you want to be seen.
When I’m strong enough inside,
I no longer defend,
All the forces,
Free flow between us.
Grievance, depression, guilt, sadness, anger, pain,
When they flow freely.
I feel warm in sorrow,
Find strength in anger,
See hope in pain.
When I’m strong enough inside,
I will not attack.
I know,
When I stop hurting myself,
Then no one can hurt me.
I lay down my arms,
Open heart,
When my heart softens,
In love and compassion,
Meet you bright and warm.
Originally, let the heart strong,
All I need is,
Seeing myself,
Accept what I can’t do,
Appreciate what I’ve done.
And believe,
Through this journey,
Can live out their own, bloom their own.